Sunday, May 31, 2009

ER

I went to the ER on Friday night with "severe abdominal pain". It was not my choice to go to the ER, but when I called my oncologist he instructed me that they needed to do a scan to make sure I wasn't having a blockage.

What I thought would be a few hours ended up taking up most of my weekend. I was just released from the hospital this morning. Luckily it was none too serious. The pain in my abdomen went away on its own after a couple of bowel movements.

Also, the CT scan I received confirmed that I am responding to the chemo. Both my tumors have shrank, which is excellent news.

I had never spent the night in the hospital so it was a bit unsettling. Luckily it wasn't too horrible. Though when my doctor told me he would release this morning, I was ecstatic.

It's good to be home.

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Round #4

I started round #4 this morning with a digital rectal exam from the oncologist. He's a busy man and didn't even remember examining me the first time, which makes me wonder. But he reviewed his notes, stuck his finger inside me and said that the rectal tumor had definitely shrunk.

This was very good news and says that the chemo is working. I had suspected this all along as I was seeing improvements in my bowels and in other areas. I was happy but not completely ecstatic. I'm not sure why. Perhaps it's a cautious optimism.

I asked him about inserting a week between this treatment and the next one, but he said if it was just a matter of toxicity that he'd rather not. Of course, it's my body and my treatment and I have the right to do what I want -- but I'll stick with his advice for now.

It's Tuesday afternoon and I've been sleeping a lot. I have the pump with me and I just prefer to sleep when it's with me. Then I don't have to deal with it as much.

Time to go lay in my bed for another couple hours.

Friday, May 22, 2009

My Portacath



I spent 2008 losing a lot of weight which I'm kinda now regretting because the portacath stands out a lot.

The portacath was "installed" in April and has actually been very useful. When I go in for chemo, it saves the trouble of having to use a vein for the IV.

For family and friends I haven't seen in a while, you can see part of the tattoo on my right arm that is still incomplete. Unfortunately, I won't be getting tattoed again until I've recovered from my cancer.

Here's a couple pics of the other tattos I recently got. The one on my right arm and on my left side are still incomplete. This has nothing to do with my cancer, I just want to show 'em. :)



Friday, May 15, 2009

Recovering from #3

The last round of chemo was a little rough. It wasn't as bad as round #2 mainly because I had no fever or flu like symptoms this time around. That's a good thing (thanks Martha).

If anything it seems that this time around was a little 'easier' than the previous two rounds. Not that any of this is easy. But there was very little nausea, so little that I only took my anti-nausea medication four times (maybe five?).

The main thing this time around was fatigue. Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday I slept more than I was awake. By Thursday, yesterday, I was ok but still tired. I managed to go to work for a few hours and came home and napped for a few more.

Today I can still feel the chemicals in me and I can still feel a little fatigue but for the most part it's manageable and I'm able to ignore it.

On the bright side I'm fairly certain the chemo is working. Things are thicker then they have been in a long time and they pass a lot easier as well. There's no blood anymore, which is a drastic change, as I was seeing blood just about every time I went to the bathroom. Also, for about a year and change I had a slight pain in my stomach near my cecum (which I eventually found out was another tumor (I have two in my colon)) which I haven't felt for about two weeks or more.

My next round of chemo is the Tuesday after Memorial Day. This will include a digital exam (ie. the doc will be sticking a finger up me) which the doctor will hopefully be able to determine if the tumor near my rectum has shrank.

I've realized so far through this that I don't like a lot of the terminology that the "cancer society" (people with cancer) have adopted. For example, I don't see this as a "battle against cancer" and I hate hate hate it when people die from cancer and it's referred to as "so-and-so lost their battle against cancer".

This almost seems to personify cancer, as though it's a sentient thing actively attacking you. In actuality it's just a malfunction of the body. A horrible and terrible malfunction, but one nonetheless. I'm not battling anything. I'm getting treated to fix something in my body that has gone wrong. It's not a battle, it's not a fight, it's an illness. And it's curable.

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Update

Some people have asked me what chemo feels like and honestly it feels like nothing when it's going in. I go to the cancer center and I sit in a big room full of other people whose lives have been affected with cancer. Often I'm the youngest one in the room.

I have an attending nurse who does everything for me for that day. Usually this begins by 'accessing' my port which just means sticking a big needle into the port. This doesn't hurt because ahead of time I apply a numbing solution to the area. This needle is attached a little plastic thingy which sits in my port and has a tube running out of it. This way they can do everything through the tube instead of having to poke me constantly.

First they withdraw blood from me to do a CBC (complete blood count) to make sure my white blood cell and red blood cell counts are OK. Then they hook me up to an IV. First they give me an anti-nausea solution which takes about half-an-hour to drop into me. After that is when I get two of three drugs in the FOLFOX regime. This takes about an hour and half to drip into me and usually by the end of it I still feel fine.

After that is done they hook me up to a pump which I wear around my waist for the next two days. This is probably the hardest part of the chemo as it's a constant reminder of my illness. The pump is about the size of a tourist's fanny pack and is actually contained in a fanny pack.

During the weeks I have chemo, Monday (the day I go in), Tuesday and Wednesday are the hardest. Wednesday mornings I get the pump removed and by Thursday I'm usually starting to feel a little bit better. By Saturday I'm usually back to 'normal'.

Tomorrow I go in for my third round of treatment. I'm hoping it goes as smoothly as the second round did, but without the fever.